There are several stages in life a person in influenced by peer pressure. Some of the significant ones that I can think of are choosing the right group for your higher secondary schooling, choosing the right degree for graduation, getting a job, getting into bad habits and it goes on...
At all these times, you are falling under pressure for the decision taken by your peers surrounding you and yield to it and you are forced to take a quick decision. Its that time when everyone surrounding you starts asking "which group?", "which company?" , "how much salary". At all of the above mentioned situations you do justice to yourself and for your family/relatives etc...
There is one more stage in life, in which everyone in this world, I feel, should never yield to peer pressure. Thats the stage where you reach your ending stage of bachlorhood and everyone surrounding you starts asking "when marriage?". When for all the above situations you can get desparate and choose an option to stop people bugging you, here it cannot be like that. You are digging your own gravel once you start yielding to pressure for this situation.
After a long time, if I did posting in my blog, you can realize how much of pressure I would have gone through and wrote my frustration out on the people surrounding me. I know eventually my wicket will fall. But why is no one seeming to appreciate that I am really happy when being not out also?
Stop bugging. Start appreciating people's happiness.
At all these times, you are falling under pressure for the decision taken by your peers surrounding you and yield to it and you are forced to take a quick decision. Its that time when everyone surrounding you starts asking "which group?", "which company?" , "how much salary". At all of the above mentioned situations you do justice to yourself and for your family/relatives etc...
There is one more stage in life, in which everyone in this world, I feel, should never yield to peer pressure. Thats the stage where you reach your ending stage of bachlorhood and everyone surrounding you starts asking "when marriage?". When for all the above situations you can get desparate and choose an option to stop people bugging you, here it cannot be like that. You are digging your own gravel once you start yielding to pressure for this situation.
After a long time, if I did posting in my blog, you can realize how much of pressure I would have gone through and wrote my frustration out on the people surrounding me. I know eventually my wicket will fall. But why is no one seeming to appreciate that I am really happy when being not out also?
Stop bugging. Start appreciating people's happiness.
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