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A Dictator?

When I see people turn at me and say "you won in your usual way", it makes me feel a little nervous and tensed. Especially when there is an argument and I want to make the oppenent party feel my realistic issues in solving the argument towards my side, most of them feel I am dictating terms. Never in my life was I a dictator to anyone nor did I think to become one.

I only dictated terms to myself. Somehow it should have fallen out slowly and has started showing upon others when they try to win any battle of arguments with me... Time to re-establish standards of argument for me.

I wanted to be honest to myself and asked people around me if they felt me as a dictator and to my surprize I found most of them say yes. But everyone had an opinion that I am approachable for any issue that needs solution. Never mind, I need to get out of the "dictator" image I have.
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Anonymous said…
I don't want to be harsh...


but my ans is

if your point is right u can make him/her realize why ur point is right.

But this won't hold good if you or other person whom u are trying to put ur point have a attitude problem with each other where most of the time the conclusion is predetermined before the discussion by both of them.
Saturday, March 22, 2008 8:29:00 AM
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